Friday, 18 March 2016

CONSUME YOUR ANGER....BEFORE IT CONSUMES YOU..

ACCORDING TO MERIAM WEBSTER-ANGER IS;

  • : a strong feeling of being upset or annoyed because of something
  •  wrong or bad: the feeling that makes someone want to
  •  hurt other people, to shout,etc. : the feeling of being angry.
  • Well hello people,today i would like to say something
  •  about anger!So dictionary defines anger in different 
  • ways and numerous psychologist in different way.Each one us
  •  must have been through the dark ballyhoo period where 
  • our mind gets purblind and we speak pettish words in the
  •  control of our furious behaviour..haven't we??To be resentful
  •  is normal,to say uncouthy word is also normal..but where
  •  is this leading you?is it providing you the coltish life u always 
  • wanted?Or is it actually defaming that person?
  • One is always going to imperfect..or have theories which would be
  •  just clodhopper or dawdling by nature.So does that gives you
  •  enough permission to break the walls of ur peaceful world 
  • which was build by you?You took so much of pain in 
  • establishing yourself..walked through the hardest of times..so
  •  why to be the fragile hearted person and allow the madness of others
  • take the power of your chariasmatic aura?
  • I have seen people who just needs others to believe what they
  •  believe and when they don't..surprise..he is "angry"!I have a 
  • question for such people..do you think you have grown all experienced
  •  and smart,well educated in order to prove your point?if you believe
  •  something..work upon it..prove it..prove it by your action not by you
  •  novious words or actions..
  • we all have a single life to cherish,to be ebullient towards our 
  • family,dear ones and really you never know when your
  •  beautiful moments may become the last ones.Acting vehemently 
  • during the course of your anger can never be justifiable..remember that!
  • people always tend to make mistake or say mean things,they might even
  •  just excoriate your love,emotions and expectations..but is it not possible
  •  to converse in an unharmed manner to that person?Is your temper so
  •  powerful that it can even weaken the mere roots..the moral roots of your 
  • own soul?

A person may get angry out of numerous causes
  • lack of respect
  • lack of self-esteem
  • no love
  • lack of proper communication/understanding
  • lack of expressing emotions.
So now what makes a person behaves so acrimoniously that even the finest of the relations breaks?I am not being a saint here to be true,i am trying to explain the need of stop hating anyone..relations matter,people matter,your one word which can destroy a person can also destroy your beautiful relation!We are all allowed to be mad and speak ill words later..but are we allowed to damage the beautiful souls who always have been there for us?I am myself not completely a restful person yet here i am knowing the ills it can cause if once you cross your limits due to this anger..I know people if once annoys us or behaves in a most unbearable way..we are tend to be angry..i mean that's okay..all i am saying is don't let that anger of you take charge of you or dominate you..Now,what to do if you get way too angry??i am surely going to talk practical here and not going to advise something what Boman Irani did in Munna bhai..(indian flick)because once you are angry..i know you are just very innocently angry..!!Here is a tip..if you actually have loved that person since always you could simply realise the fact that no matter what letting go the best people in your life can be really dreadful and beyond the walls of pain..so take a deep breath and go all silent..no matter what go silent..you know why because you are never going to regret that fact that why you were all silent and quiet rather being a discordant one in your words and action..!So try to relax and calm yourself by being all quiet..no matter what the next person thinks of you or says to you..you need to strongly adhere the fact that your soul is beautiful and your thoughts are not totally shallow they are just different from others!Never question your instincts,never judge other person by the mere act of his words..the one who is saying right now"You are the most selfish,horrible person"is the one who actually might not feel that exactly and is simply angry just like you..You see how this anger quotient can be deteriorating our emotions for each others?It has the power to budge any well established,flourishing relation..
A very special friend of mine once gave me this very thoughtful and peaceful teaching..he said"you know what Devika,you should channelize this anger of yours and use it a real constructive and productive way"..this mere truth about anger is as abstruse as the meaning of leading a peaceful life because i thought till that time once you are angry..common you are simply angry and jeez people u have to see that!Lord buddha remarkably said"HOLDING ON TO ANGER IS LIKE GRASPING A HOT COAL WITH THE INTENT OF THROWING IT AT SOMEONE ELSE;YOU ARE THE ONE WHO GETS BURNED''So another impressive solution for your anger can be to simply use in in a more powerful way..you are angry about the by-laws of the country?common do something for it..be a social worker,be a non corrupt person yourself first..!Are you pissed by seeing the worries of humankind?Seeing the worries of woman today??go people..be a  sport and work for their upliftment and that is not to say by just showing the empathy but by actual giving you support and dedication to such class..go and adopt a girl child!You are never going to feel better by saying the blithering words to the next person neither are you going to be relaxed by simply breaking all their 206 bones..you will only be at peace once your mind is at peace and you have learned the fact to prove the point you believe vehemently only in a the most expeditious manner..There was this huge cry all over the nation during the dreadful and sorrowful happening about "nirbhaya kaand"a 23 years old girl who was brutally raped and killed by bestial gang rapers in Delhi on a bus..oh god..it's hard to express that painful moment!so after that incident what exactly happened people??Candle march at Kargil chowk?People joined hands,bemoaned her death and protested against the brutal gang rapers..is that all??Why?We all were terribly abhorred by  the incident and a wide rage of fire of disgust prevailed all of our souls that moment..didn't it?So after that candle march was their a complete end to the unbearable disgust about worldwide rapism?NO!!Still today a 2 year old is raped like everyday and every moment..while each one of us is busy with are hectic life?What happened?After that NIRBHAYA incident your lives moved on??WHERE IS YOUR ANGER NOW?????YOUR ANGER NEEDS A DIRECTION HERE,YOUR SOULS WILL BE AT JUSTICE WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO SAVE EVEN A SINGLE RAPE VICTIM FROM THIS UNBEARABLE,HORRIFYING CHAIN OF RAPE!
"I LET GO OF ANGER AND PAIN IN ORDER TO WELCOME THE NEW BEGINNINGS INTO MY LIFE"

Wednesday, 16 March 2016

THE SUBTLE ELVISH BEAUTY-AUDREY HEPBURN





SHE MADE HER WAY, HER SKINNY WAY IN THE

 HOLLYWOOD WHEN THE WORLD WAS RAVISHING ABOUT THE
 VOLUPTUOUS BEAUTIES.

BORN AS AUDREY KATHLEEN RUSTON,SHE WAS A LADY OF EXTREME

 LEVEL OF CHARISMA..POISE ATTITUDE AND WHAT NOT..TALL AS 5'7'SHE 

INITIALLY COULDN'T BE ADMITTED FOR HER BALLERINA CLASSES 

BUT LATER NOTHING COULD HAVE OBSTRUCTED THE WAY OF THIS 

DEBONAIR ELVISH BEAUTY!I PERSONALLY I AM INSPIRED TRULY

 BY HER FASHION SENSE,HER PHILANTHROPISM,AND OF COURSE

 AS THE PERSON SHE WAS..AUDREY LIKE OTHERS HAD TO STRUGGLE

 WITH HER LIFE ..BUT SHE DID IT ANYWAY..HER SLEEK,LONG POSTURE

 MADE HER UNIQUE OF ALL.SHE WAS THE ONE WHO BELIEVED

"HAPPIEST GIRLS ARE THE PRETTIEST GIRLS"...WHICH STANDS SO

 TRUE AND THE STATEMENT REMAINS EVERGREEN JUST LIKE HER.

SHE WAS NOT BORN WITH A SILVER SPOON IN HER MOUTH BUT 

SHE GOT EVERYTHING SHE DESERVED.AS A TREMENDOUS ACTOR,

SHE GAVE NUMEROUS HITS LIKE"BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY'S"

,"CHARADE",LOVE IN THE AFTERNOON.. AND THE LIST GOES ON

 AN ON..MY PERSONAL FAVOURITE IS OF COURSE HER DEBUT

 MOVIE "ROMAN HOLIDAY"IN WHICH SHE WAS DEPICTED 

AS TIREDSOME PRINCESS CARRYING THE BURDEN OF HER 

ROYALTY WHO IS LATER ESCAPED BY THE COMMON MAN..HOW 

BEAUTIFUL SHE ACTED AND LOOKED IN ALL OF IT.IT WAS BECAUSE

 OF THE STYLE SHE CARRIED THAT MILLIONS OF TODAY STILL TODAY

 FOLLOW HER"LITTLE BLACK DRESS" TREND..SHE RANKED 3RD

 GREATEST FEMALE SCREEN LEGEND AND WAS LATER ON MADE

 THE GOODWILL AMBASSADOR OF UNICEF.AUDREY WAS ONE OF

 THOSE ACTRESS WHO RECEIVED  GRAMMY,ACADEMY ,EMMY,

BAFTA,GOLDEN GLOBE AWARD,TONY AWARD WHICH SHOWS 

HER UTTER POTENTIAL AND CHARM SHE HAD.SHE TRULY IS

 INSPIRING AND AS A PERSON I TAKE HER AS MY ROLE MODEL.

SHE HAD SEEN THE ILLS OF WORLD WAR SECOND,SHE KNEW 

THE PAINS AND THE NEED TO WORK FOR THE HUMAN WELFARE.

TILL HER LAST BREATH,AUDREY LEFT NO STONE UNTURNED

 IN PROVIDING WELFARE TO THE NEEDY PEOPLE AND THE

 UNPRIVILEGED SOCIETY.ALTHOUGH ON THE PERSONAL FRONT,

SHE WAS NOT SO LUCKY AS HER MOVIES,SHE HERSELF HAD 

THREE MISCARRIAGES AND ALL THIS TIME SHE WANTED TO BE 

A MOTHER MORE THAN ANYTHING AND AIMED ONLY FOR A

 PERFECT FAMILY BUT LATER , A BEAUTIFUL BABY WAS BORN 

TO HER.HER FEISTY APPEARANCE ON SCREEN,HER INFALLIBLE 

FASHION SENSE IS A BENCHMARK FOR THE UPCOMING 

GENERATION.HER CHARM,ELEGANCE,MEEK PERSONALITY

 IS SURELY APPEALING TO EACH ONE OF US..

SHE CARRIED THE TRUE SPARK AND ATTITUDE OF A WOMAN,

HER CONNOISSEUR FOR HUMANITY AS WELL AS BEAUTY WAS

 COMMENDABLE.AUDREY HEPBURN REMINDED ME PERSONALLY,

THE TRUE ESSENCE OF WOMANKIND,AND DEEPLY IMPACTED US

 TO THE BOTTOM OF OUR SOULS.SHE REMAINS TIMELESS,CLASSY

 AND CRUCIALLY A PHILANTHROPIST!DIED OF CANCER IN 1993..SHE

NEVER CARED FOR THE AMOUNT OF MONEY SHE RECEIVED AS THE

UNICEF AMBASSADOR ..AUDREY HEPBURN WILL BE SURELY AN ALLURING

PERSONA AND A TIMELESS LEGEND!!!

R.I.P DEAR AUDREY HEPBURN!!!





Saturday, 12 March 2016

LET IT GO!!!

BORN WITH FREEDOM,INNOVATION,LIFE TENDS TO LEAD US TO 

MISERIES,WORRIES AND EVENTUALLY GOD KNOWS WHAT!AS A CHILD,WE ALL HAD 

BALLOONS BUT AS AN ADULT ALL WE HAVE WORRIES...QUESTION IS WILL 

ALL YOUR STUPENDOUS ANSWERS TO YOUR WORRIES WILL BE SOLVED IN A SINGLE DAY?

WORRIES TEND TO MAKE YOU DEPRIVE OF WHAT YOUR POTENTIAL CAN BE..NOW 

YOU CAN EITHER  OPT FOR VARIOUS ANXIETY PILLS OR JOIN HANDS WITH YOGA 

AND START DOING "KAPAAL BHAATI"(YOGA)OR YOU CAN SIMPLY ACCEPT YOUR 

WORRIES AND WAVE AT THEM..SAY BYE TO IT!!TRY IT..IT MAY WORK..WHAT HAS TO 

HAPPEN..WILL HAPPEN BUT WHY SHOULD YOU BE THE ONE RUNNING FOR 

DOCTORS OR DROPPING YOU BLOOD PRESSURE?TRY SEEING YOUR WORRIES 

GETTING VANISHED IN THAT SKY..IT HAS PLAYED WITH YOUR MIND??COM'ON ITS 

YOUR TURN NOW..YOU PLAY WITH IT!AS TIME PASSES LIFE ACTS LIKE A 

INCORRIGIBLE BITCH..IT WOULD MOCK ON YOU,DO FILTHY STUFF TO 

YOU,LITERALLY IT MAY MAKE A  TURBULENCE  IN YOUR LIFE..BUT NOW YOU 

SHOULD GET UP AND SAY.."YOU HAVE BEEN A BITCH,NOW CHECK YOUR 

MOTHER"!!IN REALITY LIFE NEVER CARES ABOUT THE GOOD PEOPLE OR BAD 

PEOPLE..I THINK LIFE CARES ABOUT ONLY HOW YOU HANDLE IT!SOMETIMES,YOU 

NEED TO BE INSTANT AND STOP CARING ABOUT THIS WORLD..I MEAN WHAT 

DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKES?STILL THE SAME WHO BITCHED ABOUT YOU WILL 

CONTINUE THEIR WORK RELIGIOUSLY,RIGHT?SO ITS BETTER YOU DO WHAT YOU 

FEEL IS RIGHT!WHO SAYS YOU HAVE TO BE ALL PERFECT??LET GO OFF YOUR 

FEARS,YOUR WORRIES!MAKE MISTAKES..YOU KNOW WHY?BECAUSE IT'S ALL RIGHT 

TO MAKE MISTAKES..WE ARE ONLY HUMAN AND WE HAVE THE PRIVILEGE TO FALL 


AND THEN AGAIN STAND UP AND AGAIN FALL..THERE WILL BE PEOPLE ALWAYS 


JUDGING YOU,ADVISING YOU SO DOES IT MEANS YOU WANT TO BE ALL PERFECT 

AND SERIOUS ABOUT LIFE AND FOLLOW YOUR GOALS ONLY BY THE LAWS??OH 

PLEASE!!TIME NEVER WAITS FOR ANYONE AND SO DOES PEOPLE..ENJOY YOUR 

LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT!LET GO OFF THE CYNICAL AURA..OR THIS UNMANNERLY 

SOCIETY..AND EMBRACE THE GOODNESS AROUND 

YOU..THE GOODNESS IN YOU!